I'm here via skorpionuk, and I just wanted to say, firstly, you've summed up a lot of how I feel about these issues, and secondly, in response to:
It sounds a little antifeminist ...It really isn't. Feminism these days seems to be about wanting everyone (men and women) to have all the choices - whether they want to stay home full time, pursue a career full time, or do something in between. Feminism is just as opposed to women being pressured into staying at work and leaving their kids in daycare as it is to them being pressured into leaving work and being a full time mum.
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It sounds a little antifeminist
...It really isn't. Feminism these days seems to be about wanting everyone (men and women) to have all the choices - whether they want to stay home full time, pursue a career full time, or do something in between. Feminism is just as opposed to women being pressured into staying at work and leaving their kids in daycare as it is to them being pressured into leaving work and being a full time mum.